Learning together
I remember many years ago – about twenty –
when I spent so many mealtimes with a family showing them how to incorporate fine-motor tasks into the daily routine. One task that was easy to integrate into the
time at the table was pronation and supination of the hand and arm. This worked
especially well as the child I was working with loved to get her siblings to
chop cheese in to small cubes for her so she could sprinkle them (with index
finger and thumb) on her noodles. I encouraged them always to ask the child for
an upturned hand and outstretched arm to put the chunks in.
With three siblings and Mum and Dad at the
meal-table there were always ample opportunities for practice, and again later
while helping to clear and clean the table.
It was not only cheese that was put into that
upturned, outstretched hand; apple slices were another favourite.
I taught the family how to help at thumb,
wrist or elbow to get that little bit of extra stretch or an even flatter palm. I
encouraged them not to stretch out to the child but to let her reach out to
them. Eventually when the child learnt to cut she would chop the cheese for her
siblings and offer it to them in her
upturned hand.
It was not only at meal-times that we
practised and it was not only the family who joined in fitting things into the
daily routine. The home-help was shown how to help us too. As soon as she heard
that lunch was being prepared this child loved to run off from our work
together into the kitchen from where she would reappear with a few sticks of
red pepper or a handful of chopped mushrooms, all having been placed in her upturned palm.
On one occasion when we were together playing
with magic glitter-sticks, twisting and turning them in our hands and bending and
stretching our arms, I was asked –‘Why are we practising this? Look I can do
it!’
She explained what had happened at the next
meal time, when she demonstrated and said ‘Look I can do it’ the family called
out to her in chorus– ‘Then always do it then you won’t forget it’.
That task seemed to have become well and
truly integrated into the routine of the day!
This child, now a young adult
just finishing her Master’s degree continued to practise this movement in all
situations in her daily life until it became a spontaneous and natural
movement. But I expect her family still expect her to stretch out her upturned
hand to receive anything they give her!
A different upbringing
A different upbringing
I was reminded of this story this past summer as I
worked with Laddo.
Now in his adult life, since he learnt to
walk longer distances, he is able to venture further but he is rarely confident
enough to do so alone.
Each time when I arrive to work with Laddo
his first request is to go out walking, that will mean anything between five
and ten kilometres a day, depending on the weather.
In the first days of our work together we enjoyed glorious late spring sunshine so we were able to get out and about in the surrounding countryside.
In the first days of our work together we enjoyed glorious late spring sunshine so we were able to get out and about in the surrounding countryside.
Laddo found renewed pleasure walking in the
hills that are on his doorstep. The lanes through these hills were our training
ground in his teenage years when he was determined to march with the shooting
club as soon as he reached sixteen. He was always so thrilled with the beauty he
found in the fields, the skies and the creatures we discovered as we pounded the
lanes, clocking up the kilometres and enjoying the sunshine.
He often exclaims about how lucky he feels
that he lives where he does and how lucky he is that I will go on such long
walks with him. I make sure when we are out and about that we look at the
things that he would have been discovering when he was a child had he been able
to go off with his siblings and roll around in the hay, scramble under
hedgerows, and crawl under fences. We discover four-leafed clovers, count the
petals on a poppy, pick and blow dandelion clocks and take very close looks at
the insects we find. We take photographs of the clouds, of sunsets and of the rolling
fields with corn or hay bales. All to be used later as subject matter in
paintings.
It was on such a walk this summer that I
noticed Laddo twisting and turning his arm, he was trying to follow the
movements of an insect that was creeping along his skin.
I watched him and, as always, he knew that I
was watching. And as always he knew that I was watching with a smile because I
was enjoying seeing him enjoying using what he has learnt during our hundreds of hours
working together.
So it was with tongue-in-cheek that I asked him where he had
learnt to twist and turn his arm like that. His huge smile was enough to tell
me that he too knew how much hard work had gone in to learning something that
now just came naturally.
At twenty-four-years-old Laddo is at last able to watch creepy-crawlies tickling his skin just as my four-year-old niece,
Aimee, was also doing this summer in England when we took a walk together in the woods.
You pick up implicitly up on a point that I have never seen or heard of discussed in the context of Conductive Education, the relation of pedagogy and upbringing, how they dovetail together, what happens when they do not.
ReplyDeleteThey constitute an indissoluble unity. Or do they? This is easy to consider at the theoretical level but may prove harder to arrange at the level of practice and provision.
All that hard work in 'CE programs', with no collateral background in life, it it really worth the effort? There's a research question worthy of consideration if ever there was one. And here's another: can appropriate upbringing on its own make substantial benefits without conscious pedagogic input? There is unlikely to be a simple, black and-white answer to either question, but both have considerable practical and even social-policy implications at all levels of economic development.
"Can appropriate upbringing on its own make substantial benefits without conscious pedagogic input?"
ReplyDeleteAndrew, I have been pondering this lately as I have been working 1-to-1. Would love to see some discussion on it.
Yes, so would I!
DeleteSusie has provided a very good kick-off for this very important topic . As sister and conductor you are in such a good position to run with this ball on your own blog and we can see how far we can take it.